R.I.P Maria Gilbert (1938-2020)

Maria Gilbert died peacefully on Sunday 29 November in London after a long period of
illness. Her death marks the departure of a powerful professional woman who made a
highly significant contribution to the field of psychological therapy, both in the UK and
internationally. Maria was proud of her South African origins. Both of her parents were
Afrikaans speaking, which positioned the family significantly both culturally and politically.
Growing up in the context of apartheid provided Maria with both interesting and sometimes
difficult experiences that she reported as evoking anxieties that could later be triggered in
unsafe environments.
Maria’s first degree and related work experiences emerged from her love of literature,
leading her to the study of English and an early career in teaching. This would later have a
strong influence on how she approached the training of psychological therapists; she was
particularly interested in issues of curriculum design and lesson planning, as well as the
structuring of written assignments by students and the correct use of the comma.
Shakespeare was never far from view and visits to Stratford were frequent.
Maria’s early involvement with the study of psychology brought out her criticality of an
impersonal approach that resided in the medical model. While she completed her studies in
Clinical Psychology, and later achieved BPS Chartered Status, she gravitated towards
approaches to psychological therapy that were based in a more interpersonal approach.
Her early therapeutic interests centred on Transactional Analysis, later supplemented by
involvement with the Gestalt approach as well as other developing approaches within the
clinical field. At the same time, she was able to ground herself in a more traditional
psychological approach that favoured a focus on structural diagnoses. These wide ranging
interests and related professional experiences led her to Integrative Psychotherapy.
Maria moved to the UK at the end of 1985 to join with other South African colleagues in what
had become the early formational years of Metanoia Institute in London, an institute that
went on to provide a particularly high standard of training for psychologists and
psychotherapists. In her early role as a member of the Management Committee of that
institute she was part of a powerful intellectual force that, along with colleagues such as
Petruska Clarkson, formulated the beginnings of a highly creative approach to psychological
therapy that did not identify with a particular modality. Her publications continue to reach a
wide audience internationally. Her self-enjoyed personal style, as defined by both students
and colleagues as the ‘Velvet Exocet’ or ‘Attila the Honey”, will be fondly remembered.
These qualities kept her on a focused path to deliver a trusted and high level professional
identity to the fields of counselling and psychological therapy.
Dr Vanja Orlans